It’s been a long time since I’ve updated my WordPress.com blog. Mainly this is because I actually have my own blog at my own domain already, but that’s not much of an excuse since I do update my other community sites. It’s just that I’ve been lazy, and WordPress isn’t in the Google toolbar share feature. I was thinking though, that it should be. When I have some time, I’m going to see if there’s a way to add it.
Anyway, because of my injury last year, my weight loss is at a steady 5 kg. for last year, and oscillating around 7 probably because of water because of the pill. I got back on it because my husband and I are getting back together. We still have some issues to work out, but it’s moving forward.
The deeper we get into this issue, the more convinced I am that there needs to be more awareness among men of the possible damage that an unscrupulous woman can do to them. It’s not scare tactics or misandry to tell a woman she shouldn’t be walking home alone at 3 in the morning. It’s not scare tactics or misogyny to tell a man that some women lie, weasle into your life, and then strip you emotionally and financially bare. Few people warn men because few people think of these things in a world where women are marketed as default victims. When a woman does something wrong, there’s always an excuse. That, or they just deny that women are capable of some things.
I’m trying not to be both my husband’s therapist and his wife. Problem is that there isn’t likely a counselor out there who will break ranks enough to deal with the issues without saying the equivalent of “suck it up”. That, in my opinion, is a shame.
Maybe I should make a website so therapists who deal with men’s issues can come out of the closet so to speak. If they’re easier to find, maybe some guys will get the help they need before they close into themselves.
